WEDDING STYLE

After the red-carpet runway-like entrance of all the celebrities, socialites, and royal family where I got to do my own Joan Rivers commentary within the confines of my own home, the royal wedding became a bit banal to tell you the truth.  Yes it was exciting to see Kate walk out of her Rolls Royce and finally see her Grace Kelly copycat wedding dress.  But like I posted in my last blog entry, even that was a bit anti-climatic.  She’s a pretty girl.  She could have worn a Glad garbage bag and still have found a way to look beautiful.

The event planner in me wasn’t impressed with Westminster Abbey’s decor.  Don’t get me wrong, I love the majestic cathedral, its architecture and dramatic mile-long aisle.  Those elements are what drew me to my own wedding ceremony venue in NYC.  But it seemed that Kate and William’s wedding planning had more to do with the precision military timing of their orchestration and the security measures behind the event than the decor.  For the best parts of it for me were the before and afters.  The processional, guest and wedding party entrances and then the grand carriage exit.

Plain trees down the aisle with greenery up front?  Really?  That’s it?  That’s what an unlimited budget buys you?  I would have thought there would have been more thought to the lighting design.  More drama at the entrance.  A custom carpet with the royal crest.  Scroll-like programs etched in gold foil.  Nothing?  really?

And the ceremony was so long and drawn out that I couldn’t help but wonder how many Americans had fallen asleep with their TVs on in the wee hours of the morning.  Even Prince William seemed to be getting tired of it at one point.  And did anyone else see that sleeping nun in the background?  hilarious.

Even more hilarious is what was caught on camera after the wedding party left.  Check out this verger.

How I would love if my wedding guests and officiant also did cartwheels down my wedding aisle! lol

Once upon a time, in a land far far away was a beautiful princess-to-be with a fairly boring but passable fashion sense.  And during the 5month engagement the world was abuzz with predictions, speculations and designer drawings of what the princess bride would wear.  My personal prediction was that she would play it safe with something traditional and classic.  And knowing the grand cathedral that she was to be wed in, I envisioned her in something grand, something with covered shoulders, something with a little lace and definitely something with a long train.  I just prayed it wouldn’t be as ridiculously long as Princess Diana’s train.

So when I got to work this morning, the first thing I did was to anxiously play the video of Kate Middleton taking that famous ride towards Westminster Abbey.  No I wasn’t one of the millions of Americans who set their alarms at 5am or stayed up all night partying at a viewing event.  A girl has got to work!  Excitedly though, I was happy to have been right about the wedding dress predictions and stunned to see the similarities between Kate Middleton’s dress and Grace Kelly.  It immediately brought me back to the day my best friend emailed me that same Grace Kelly photo that has been floating around the web .  She actually suggested to me that I wear something similar to Grace Kelly’s dress for my very own wedding!  What timing!  For it seems Kate already stole the idea with the help of Sarah Burton from Alexander McQueen.

For a full slideshow of Kate’s dress click here

Did anyone else find the dress a bit anti-climatic?

Look who I met!  Here’s the world’s most talented cake artist, Ron  Ben-Israel.  Otherwise known as the “Manolo Blahnik of wedding cakes” (quoted from the NY Times), or the “King of Cakes” as referred to by Modern Bride Magazine, or simply “fabulously dressed” in my book (check him out!), Ron is a superstar cake creator with a perfectionist’s attention to detail.  Just look at his amazing work below!

I hurriedly popped into the last room at the New York Palace’s bridal showcase hoping to take everything in before close as if I were just entering the last 10minutes of a Barney’s warehouse sale.  In my hurry to take in the crumbling fabulousity around me (vendors were tearing down much to my dismay), I barely noticed the celebrity cake maker staring at me.  I twirled in place quickly scanning the room to strategize my starting point when to my surprise, Ron approached me to comment on my look saying he wanted to take a picture with me.  (No one can resist my poodle purse as it seems to attract all!)  Little did he know I was even more excited to take a photo with him for not only have I seen him on Ace of Cakes I’ve spent an embarrassing amount of time oohing and ahhing at his website, PLUS I was soon to be his future bridal client!  Ron is making my wedding cake!


All cake photos from Ron Ben Israel’s website

The best part about the meetup is that Ron agreed to do a FabGabBlog interview.  So here is your chance, readers.  What do you want to ask Ron?  I’ll make sure to add in your questions and let you know the answers in a follow-up post!  Leave your comments here!


Currently, about 5 episodes of Say Yes to the Dress are clogging up my DVR (as are Four Weddings, My Fair Wedding, Rich Bride Poor Bride and Bridalplasty).  Can you tell I’m a little wedding-show-obsessed?  Before you jump to conclusions,  let me defend myself.  I’m not a Bridezilla in the making.  I’m just an event planner by trade who also happens to be a bride-to-be.  So these event planning bridal shows are right up my alley and often a source of inspiration (not to mention laughter, envy and ridicule).

So when I heard that Kleinfeld was doing a live fashion show at the NY Palace Hotel (my wedding venue) I just had to say yes to the event.   Besides, how can a “Say Yes to the Dress” fan turn down the opportunity to see Randy and the Kleinfeld clan?  Here are my pictures!

As you can see, even though I arrived late and the open seating was half-full by the time I arrived, I still managed to snag a decent center aisle seat.  I attribute this to being in a room full of amateur fashion show go-ers who mistakenly took any seat near the stage.  (real pros know to take the coveted center aisle seat for best viewing pleasure!)

As you can see, the opening look was a fashion-forward stunner.  You could literally hear the audience audibly gasp when the swarvoski crystals flickered towards them.  What can I say?  We girls are suckers for the shiny shiny.The off-white bejewled lace tank featured delicate cap sleeves and an organza ruffled skirt with feathered detail.  I love feathers so that’s what caught my eye.  Thing is this Pnina Tornai dress retails for $19,200.  It made the complimentary Kleinfeld $400 coupon seem like pennies in comparison which made me wonder how many brides-to-be gave up their Kleinfeld dreams at this point and hastily threw their coupon favors away. 

This ivory scoop neck sheath by Koscanyo Couture confused me.  It had a matronly silhouette and conservative cut which reminded me of something an older bride might wear for her 2nd wedding but then upon closer inspection, you realize that it would have to be a slutty older bride.  Check out the see-through lace!

This Olivia Couture simple ivory strapless A-line gown was made of tulle and sparkled with its bow bling.  It’s great for that simple, girly bride who just so happens to have $3600 to spare.

If you like the romantic look and want to incorporate lace, then something like the below ivory strapless, dropped-waist trumpet gown might be a pretty purchase.
To me, this look is just too saccharine.  But here’s a close-up for all you sweet brides.

That’s a velvet bow that you’re looking at.  The whole Johanna Hehir dress is $5900 which to me sounds like a lot, given I’ve never heard of that designer before.

When this blondie came out, I couldn’t help staring at the beautiful necklace.  So much so that I didn’t even notice she was wearing pants!  It was only after I checked our event program, and I read “white strapless chiffon over silk satin skinny pant by Le Spose Di Gio $4100″ that I had to take a double-take.  What do you think of this unusual bridal getup?  Are pants the new wave of the future?  I think not… that is unless maybe you’re Ellen DeGeneres.  Here’s a better shot of that necklace.  I love statement jewelry!

The fashionista in me is drawn to asymmetrical shoulders but this one pictured below just didn’t excite me.   Look at the model.  The dress even makes her sleepy.  I certainly got a shockwave of excitement though when I saw that the Amarildine dress costed$4200.  $4200 for this organza piece?  Really?

Next came an unexpected surprise that both delighted and fascinated me.  Check out this blue and white seersucker sweetheart neckline ballgown.Have you ever seen such a thing?  I mean a seersucker blue/white gown – who does this?  The concept seemed borderline outrageous but I loved the fresh take.  Take a closer look.

The guy wore a white linen suit with blue and white seersucker dress shirt.  And they both looked absolutely adorable together.  I can see this looking perfect at a summer southern wedding.  You can be sure to cross off “something blue” with this dress!

It doesn’t hurt that the model was flawlessly beautiful, right?  And look below.  the back is beautiful and elegant.  I just love the draping.  It reminds me of some Maggie Sottero and Kenneth Pool gowns that I’ve tried on.

If you’re not sick of bridal gowns, then read on tomorrow when I upload the rest of the pictures from the 2nd half of the show.  Say yes to tomorrow’s post!

As a continuation to my previous post on pretty pastel inspiration boards, here’s part 2. I’m on a roll..  Right now, I’m dreaming of a vintage princess themed wedding.  Not all of us can be Kate Middleton but we can dream, right?

Here’s a vintage glam inspiration board featuring the interior of the New York Palace Hotel, my dream wedding venue.

Also along the pretty pastel vintage princess theme is the below inspiration board.  I’m especially loving the cake’s pale pastel colors, feathery details and shimmery blue damask details below.  What do you think?

Right now, I’m loving the vintage touch to event decor. And I’m dreaming of a vintage glam wedding. Here are some inspiration boards that I’ve created along the way that would be great for any non-wedding event too!


I love the muted pastels, gold accents and glam details.  Is anyone else loving these images?

Here’s to a Chanel – inspired wedding.  Fat Karl.  Skinny Karl.  I love it all!
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First impressions are important and invites are your event’s first impression.  So when I came across Paperless Post, (think designer evites), I couldn’t wait to throw my next fab fete.

They bring design and fashion to the world of online invites – something Facebook and Evite invites sadly lack.  AND they let you customize the colors, fonts, wording and envelope liner.  What more could you ask for?

I’m planning to use these for my change of address, holiday cards, and engagement party invites – yes I said engagement because I just got engaged!!  FabGabBlog readers will soon be hearing and seeing a lot more about wedding planning in this blog!  (I’m thinking about using the cute black and white bowtie design for my engagement party invite.  It’s not too masculine, not too feminine and adds just the touch of fanciness and elegance that I’m looking for.

And thanks to Paperless Post, all you FabGabBlog readers can enjoy the 25 free custom evites! Enjoy!

FabGabBlog is also giving away a vintage dress – click here to enter to win!

Anyone who reads my blog knows I love black and white.  Add damask, and my heart starts pumping like it does when I near Chanel.

Here’s my latest fab fete collage.

Everyone loves a freebie.

This post’s Fab Freebie is all about DIY templates and downloads.  Everything from stickers, to candy bar signs, to monograms and invites are available online in free downloadable fashion now!

Check out the Weddingchicks for some of my favorite templates, monograms and signs.  They have this cool function that allows you to customize the colors and satisfy your need for instant gratification with a quick email back to you with your free download.

My idol, Martha Stewart surprisingly gives out free downloadable DIYs online too.

And the queen of DIY free downloads is IDIY.

I was quite impressed with their selection of free downloadable invite templates shown above.  Check downloadandprint.com for more!

What do you think?  Would you use these?

For events with minimal budget (which is what I’ve been planning for work these days), these downloads are an invaluable resource!

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